Amusing 9 opening lines as smooth as jazz for girls. We do not think, it’s a good idea to approach a man other then smile discretely. But if you like some fun…

Here, are nine lines you might exercise next time you spy a guy you'd like to chat to:

1. Stroke. The male ego loves a little stroke. Why not use that to your advantage?

"If I see a man with gorgeous smile, I tell him so in a very casual way, pausing just long enough for him to get a good look at me. Then I keep moving, a guy tracks me down, and we start talking."

2. Touchdown. If you're a sports fan, you've got a leg up on some of the other girls. With a season in full swing, use your sports insight as an entrée.

"Make a comment about a play or a draft pick, and you'll definitely get an attention."

3. Sympathy. Working the crowd at a party or bar can get a little dull, so a bit of compassion is very welcome of an attractive woman in these situations.

"If you see him being bored at a party, you could come closer over and say - 'I feel your pain' as an opening line."

4. Giggle. When you're dating online, you may like to add a little spark. Neutral humour often helps.

”Having your best picture is the most important on line indeed, but the full presentation which is original and funny can definitely assure his attention."

5. Asking for an advice can be s a great ice-breaker.

”If you see a hottie in a hardware store don’t hesitate to ask him for an advice/recommendations - if he helps you out - offer him some coffee. It works.

6. Friendly language. Feeling daring up to a bit of sexy factor?

”You indeed should flirt a little bit more then normal and be approachable; he most likely will invite you to dance soon after."

7. Common interests. You could just ask him to get a group together for a hike.

”If you have been exchanging 'good mornings' with a trainer at the gym for sometime, you could just asked him, if he'd like to take the workout outside or maybe get a group together for a hike? You may be dating soon."

8. Listen. Be a good listener and find out what his interests are.

"If you are a big music lover, and if you see a guy in a CD store grooving to music you like, you can start talking to him about it. Can offer to burn him a CD of similar tunes and suggest meeting again to give it to him."

9. Results. Sometimes you can also skip the formalities.

"If you were sitting on a train, wracking your brain for something pithy to say to a nice looking man down the coupe, just move to the sit next and tell him just that. At the end of the day, you may not see him again otherwise. No embarrassment or worries as unlikely to bump into him soon".

But most of everything be yourself, take a good care, be happy and confident - that certainly works big time!!! And have fun!!!

Fun and Safety with CityDating.co.uk

One of the safest ways of meeting new people is online, which can also be great fun as well!
Our clients are of the highest calibre and are looking for companionship, romance and love; just like you. Most people are honest, but we also do everything we can to make certain that your visit to CityDating is a safe and pleasant one. Nonetheless, all members and ladies in particular may consider following simple rules to ensure a safe and enjoyable experience both on and offline dating:

• Never quickly give out your personal details, such as your e-mail address, telephone number and especially your home address, until you are sure that you want to meet a particular person. We specifically designed our system to allow all your correspondence to be done anonymously through our CityDating service.



• You may like to set up an additional e-mail address and/or a mobile number (which you can easily change) just for dating purposes.



• You of course can flirt a bit with your potential date but don't encourage things you may regret when meeting face to face at a later time.



• Remember, our aim is your satisfaction and safety, so please report to support@citydating.co.uk any member who is sending inappropriate messages or suggestions, so that we can take the necessary action.



• Always meet in a public place, like a bar or restaurant. Do not arrange to be picked up from your home or even work. Never allow your date to make arrangements for your travel or hotel accommodation.



• Tell a friend or family member who and where you are meeting, including his or her phone number. It is also a good idea to let the friend know what time you will be back and whether your date is going well.



• Consider arranging a double date with some of your friends or going out in a group.



• Always have an escape plan for the unexpected or if the date is not successful. You may like to ask your friend to call, which will allow you to leave quickly and politely, if necessary.



• Remember a person, who is truly interested in you, will certainly appreciate the time it takes to get to know you, so don't rush into anything.



• And as always, use your common sense and intuition (they are often right) - if in doubt, get out.
  
  

Successful SpeedDating or your first date

As you know the first impression can last forever or at least goes a long way, so you may like to make the most of it and remind yourself of the basic ingredients for a successful first date:

• Self-confidence. Be normal, be yourself - confident and happy. Look directly at the date. Make conversation or allow your date to take the first steps.
  
  
• Be positive. Life is beautiful and positive attracts positive, so to make sure you are getting a great date, just be great yourself!
  
  
• Talk with, not at. Listening and questioning are a very important part of every conversation. So, if you like your date, show your interest by listening and asking questions.
  
  
• Flirt but just not too much. Flirting is great, but can also give the wrong impression so better not to over do it. There'll be plenty of time for flirtation when the relationship develops!
  
  
• Dress to impress, smart/sexy but without looking like you've tried too hard. Moderation is everything. Be clean and well-groomed, and dress appropriately for the occasion - casual for the pub or local restaurant, smarter for the ballet or theatre.
  
  
• Beware the demon drink. When you're excited and maybe slightly nervous, it's easy to keep on refilling your glass. But you want to keep in control of yourself, so how about limiting yourself to just a couple of drinks. And a woman particularly might question the motives of a man who keeps trying to ply her with alcohol...
  
  
• Just enjoy yourself. Meeting new people is fascinating, especially when you may be meeting your future partner, so it helps to feel optimistic and look forward to having a great time together!
  
  

It's your turn to be happy! So good luck and have fun!

Success 10 ways to change your life right now.

Bad morning? Read it on and you'll feel fabulous in minutes.

• Get an ego boost.
• Find a sexy single man.
• Get back in your mates good books.
• Have a flirt with the office hottie.
• Liven up your social life.
• Score a pay rise.
• Try a new hairstyle.
• Get a flat stomach.
• Go for a jog to the park.
• Buy yourself a slinky top.

Now you feel great. Don't you?

Reading and using the following tips will make all the difference to your success in using this service and finding your ideal partner, please read them carefully.

Men try to always make the first move! Don't just sit and wait for other members to send you a message. Making the first move will show you are a go-getter and will improve your chances considerably. Always try to reply promptly to emails you have received, don't worry about looking too keen, replying promptly shows good manners.

All make sure you have a photo displayed with your profile, many members will only respond to profiles with photos. When choosing your main photo, a good clear 'head and shoulders' shot that shows you looking happy. It will make all the difference! You can upload your photo directly from the site or you can post us your photo via a post and we will scan and add your photo for you for FREE!

Make sure your profile is correct and your description is accurate and sounds genuine, sincere and interesting, read it back to yourself, put yourself in the shoes of the person who will be reading it, would you want to meet you? You can click on "My Account" and then "Change Profile" at any time to change it.

Before you start sending out your emails spend some time writing your email in a word processor program such as "Word" or "Notepad", you can then easily cut and paste it into the dating site emailer saving you time typing it out again and again.

Take a long hard look at what you have written, ask yourself whether you would want to reply if you had received it.

Don't just come straight out with one-liners like "You sound nice, can we meet up?". Tell them about yourself, your hobbies and interests, make yourself sound interesting, don't just say "I have a good sense of humour and like a laugh", write something funny and show them you really do like a laugh.

Read their profile, what are their interests and hobbies? Show that you are interested in the same things.

Above all be honest, lying will get you nowhere as you will be found out sooner rather than later and will most definitely loose any chances of a relationship at the same time.

NEVER mention sex or imply you are just looking for sex, that is a big turn off and will make most people run a mile!

Don't send out dozens of emails all at once, send out a few at first and if you don't get the desired response take another look at what you are sending out and what you have written on your profile - do a rewrite if necessary.

Got the idea?.... now the rest is up to you.... Good Luck.

Most women aren't willing to do 2 things:

1) They aren't ready to admit that it isn't just men who don't know what's going on when it comes to dating and relationships... but that it's also THEM. They don't want to face the responsibility they have for creating everything they want in their life. And instead, they want it to just happen for them with a man, and be easy as it's "supposed to be".

2) They aren't WILLING to move past their own patterns of failure and the things they blame for not having the love they want in their life yet... and then actually invest the time and effort required to learn, grow, and become really and truly GREAT at something.

Take a moment, and make the decision and commitment to yourself that you're going to TAKE ACTION in the areas of your life that you want to improve, and you're going to do what it takes to stay on track until you get the results that you're looking for.

Can you make that commitment to yourself?

Can you FOLLOW THROUGH on that commitment?

The most important decision you can ever make that will guarantee that you change your love life FOREVER is to COMMIT TO YOURSELF that you're no longer going to remain in a place of worry, doubt, and uncertainty.

Commit to yourself that you're going to figure out how to get this part of your life called men, dating, and a loving lasting relationships back on track... NO MATTER WHAT.

Have YOU made this decision? We hope so!

True is! Men don't make a whole lot of sense. And the right man isn't just going to walk up to you one day and make everything that you've been going through and struggling with in your past relationships just go away.

So it's time you take care. When you turn the tables in your favor, you can create the love and relationship that other women who can't seem to stop attracting the wrong men and keep getting hurt only dream about. Really.

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